You’ve asked yourself the question a hundred times. “Why do I keep attracting unavailable men?” And you’ve gotten the same unsatisfying answers. “You need to love yourself first.” “Raise your standards.” “Stop picking the same type.” As if you haven’t tried. As if you chose this pattern on purpose. Here’s what nobody tells you: you’re […]
Tag Archives: Relationship Patterns
You did it again. You chose someone who's "not ready for anything serious." Someone who pulls away the moment you lean in. Someone who gives you just enough attention to keep you hooked but never enough to feel secure. And you know better. You've read the books. You can recite attachment theory in your sleep. […]